Wednesday, December 21, 2016

God's Gift To Us This Christmas

As we are getting closer to Christmas and to the start of a new year, I can't help but reflect on the amazing gift that God has blessed our family with over the past couple of weeks.  It's a gift that no one in our family could ever have imagined possible.  It's a gift so full of hope, so full of love, so full of His wonder, that we know it can only have come directly from God.

Just a few short weeks ago, I was sharing the news here that Georgia Boy and I were getting a divorce.  Things had been rough between us for several years, to put it mildly, and we had reached the point where we both agreed that it was time to call it quits.  We were better off apart, we believed.  It was better for us to step apart while we could remain civil, when we could both remain an active part in our children's life.

An interesting thing happened once we made this decision.  We found that we get along better than we had in years.  We were finally communicating with each other in ways that we hadn't in a long time.  As we were stepping apart from each other in our marriage, we found that we had to talk in order to make decisions for our children and for the road that was being set in front of us.  For the first time in a very long time, we were finally friends again.

After Georgia Boy moved out, we still continued to see a change in our relationship that we hadn't expected to see.  While we were expecting to grow apart, we were instead growing closer together. We were able to see what all went wrong with our marriage, what all we needed to change, and we could see it through a whole new light.

Amazingly, God has gifted our marriage with a renewed energy that we never thought imaginable. We are focusing on bringing our whole family closer together, and we are thrilled that we have been given the opportunity to save something so precious to us.

Thursday, November 24, 2016

A major change

 Thanksgiving is a little different this year. Our family has experienced a major change that has had a huge impact on how our holidays will play out from now on. After 18 years of marriage, many of which have been very rough, Georgia Boy and I have decided that we are better off as friends than we are being married, and our marriage has come to an end. The transition has been especially rough on Monster Man, who doesn't deal well with change, but we are all adjusting. However, as Thanksgiving is our first big holiday since ending our marriage,  we would appreciate some extra prayers for the whole family.

Tuesday, June 14, 2016

Time gets away

It's amazing how fast time can get away from me!  With three kids that all have very active lives, plus a very busy life of my own, it seems that the days just fly by me.  In the blink of an eye, my kids are growing up and are fast showing me that they are on their way to becoming the grown beings that I am raising them to be.

Angel Baby just finished her junior year of high school.  It's so hard to believe that in just one very short year, she'll be graduating high school and will be preparing to leave the nest.

Monster Man just finished his sophomore year and will soon be heading into his junior year.  It won't be long before he, too, leaves me.

Little Man just finished fourth grade and will be heading into middle school in another year.  I am thankful that he likes to spend a little time with me, even if he's starting to prefer his friends over his mom, too.

We haven't made any major plans for this summer.  We're going to see where the summer leads us, where the road takes us, what adventure comes our way... We're looking forward to finding out what that may be!

Thursday, February 25, 2016

One of these days

Angel Baby dreams of being a singer.  The child was practically born with a microphone in her hand! I'm pretty sure singing was her first language.  She's been performing pretty much her whole life, and we know that God has gifted her with this talent so that she can share it with the world.  I only wish that I knew how to make that happen for her.

We've attended auditions for America's Got Talent, American Idol, and The Voice.  She hasn't made it through any of them, but we haven't given up.  I'm continuing to look for ways to help her make her dreams come true.

For now, please enjoy this video clip of Angel Baby singing last weekend.

Monday, August 10, 2015

Our Busy Summer!

Wow!  What a busy summer we have had this year!  Who knew that our first summer in our quiet little town here in Indiana would turn into a busy summer of traveling?

We took in a vintage baseball game, and I couldn't help but take the pictures in black and white.

Angel Baby and Monster Man have both joined their school's show choir.  Be prepared, because I am sure that I will be posting pictures in the coming months.  They had four different fundraisers that they participated in (who am I kidding?  We all helped with most of them).  The first was leading pony rides at Calf Days at Cook's Bison Ranch.

We didn't get pictures of porkburger sales on July 3 and 4, or of the car wash the following week. We saw fireworks displays in two different towns on different weekend.  While Georgia Boy took Angel Baby and Monster Man to the car wash, Little Man was my date to Chicago to pick my mom up from the airport.

Georgia Boy and I took the kids to Georgia to visit and to pick up the last of the things we'd left behind when we moved.  We decided to have a large potluck at a park to get to see as many of our family and friends that we could during our trip.  At final count, it was somewhere near 50 people that all took part.

So far, August has continued to be busy!  My mom and I took the kids on a long trip.  We started off in Philadelphia for Angel Baby to audition for American Idol's final season.  She didn't make it through, but we had a lot of fun trying.

Back at the hotel, we spent a few hours at an indoor water park.

The next day, we took the kids to Philadelphia to see Independence Hall and The Liberty Bell.

We went to our hotel in New Jersey later that day, so that we would be closer to the Tim Howard Tourette Syndrome Academy, where Monster Man attended.  We had a few days when we arrived, so we decided to do a little exploring.  The first day of exploration led us to Staten Island, New York, where we took the ferry to Manhattan.  We got to see The Statue of Liberty, which was particularly exciting for us all!

The next day, we drove to Hoboken, New Jersey to go to Carlo's Bakery and have some Cake Boss goodies.

While Monster Man was at the Academy, we visited with one of the other TS moms that I've met online, went to the mall, and took in a movie (The Minions Movie).  Yesterday, we made the long trip back home.

Our summer has taken us to (or at least through, with small pit stops) Illinois, Michigan, Kentucky, Tennessee, Georgia, Ohio, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and New York.  At home, it's been filled with new adventures, hard work, dentist visits, and getting prepared for the new school year.  A week from tomorrow, it all comes to an end when the kids return to school.  Angel Baby will be a junior, Monster Man will be a sophomore, and Little Man will be in 4th grade.